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Safety First, Bullets Last: The Rules of Engagement

Writer: Alecia RobersonAlecia Roberson

When Is It Necessary to Use a Handgun for Self-Defense?

Disclaimer: This article is for informational and educational purposes only. Laws regarding self-defense vary by city, county, and state. This is not legal advice. Please consult local laws and legal professionals for guidance specific to your jurisdiction.


As responsible gun owners, we don’t carry a handgun because we’re looking for trouble—we carry because we refuse to be victims. But knowing when to use your firearm in self-defense is just as crucial as knowing how to use it.





The Legal and Moral Threshold

Using deadly force isn’t something to take lightly. In most states, you’re only justified in using a handgun if you reasonably believe your life—or someone else’s—is in imminent danger. That means you must be facing an immediate, unavoidable threat of death or great bodily harm.


The Four Conditions for the Use of Force

  1. Ability – The attacker must have the means to cause death or great bodily harm (e.g., a weapon, significant size/strength advantage).

  2. Opportunity – The attacker must be in a position where they can immediately carry out the threat.

  3. Jeopardy – The attacker must be demonstrating intent to cause harm through their words, actions, or body language.

  4. Preclusion – You must have exhausted all reasonable means to avoid using deadly force.


The Use of Force Continuum for Civilians

Understanding the levels of force can help civilians make informed decisions about self-defense. The continuum typically follows these stages:

  1. Presence – Avoiding conflict through situational awareness and non-threatening body language.

  2. Verbal Commands – Using a firm and clear voice to de-escalate a potential threat.

  3. Physical Control – Employing non-lethal force like pushing or restraining when necessary.

  4. Less-Lethal Force – Using tools like pepper spray or a stun gun to stop an attack.

  5. Deadly Force – Drawing and using a firearm as an absolute last resort when facing imminent danger.


Situations Where Drawing Your Firearm May Be Justified

  1. Home Invasion – If an intruder forces their way into your home, you have the legal right in many states to defend yourself and your family. The key? They must pose a clear and immediate danger.

  2. Carjacking – If someone is attempting to forcibly remove you from your vehicle or harm you inside it, the threat may justify the use of deadly force.

  3. Armed Robbery – If a criminal is threatening you with a weapon, you may have no choice but to defend yourself.

  4. Assault with a Deadly Weapon – If an attacker is coming at you with a gun, knife, or any other deadly weapon, the use of your firearm may be warranted.

  5. Kidnapping or Abduction – If someone is attempting to forcefully take you or another person against your will, deadly force could be legally justified.


Stand Your Ground & Castle Doctrine

  • Stand Your Ground – Some states do not require you to retreat before using deadly force if you are in a place you have a legal right to be.

  • Castle Doctrine – This legal principle allows you to defend yourself with deadly force inside your home without a duty to retreat.


When NOT to Use Your Handgun

  • Verbal altercations – Words alone don’t justify deadly force.

  • Property crimes – Shooting someone for stealing your car without a threat to your life is a no-go in most places.

  • Warning shots – In most jurisdictions, warning shots are illegal and can land you in serious trouble.

  • Retaliation – Self-defense is about stopping an imminent threat, not getting revenge.


The Aftermath of Using a Firearm

Using a handgun in self-defense is only the beginning. The aftermath can bring significant legal, emotional, financial, and psychological consequences:

  • Legal – Even if justified, you may face criminal charges, civil lawsuits, or legal fees.

  • Emotional – Taking a life, even in self-defense, can bring guilt, stress, and anxiety.

  • Financial – Legal defense, court costs, and potential lost wages can be financially devastating.

  • Psychological – PTSD, nightmares, and emotional trauma are common after a defensive shooting.





Final Thoughts

Carrying a handgun is a tremendous responsibility. If you ever have to use it, it should be because there was no other way to stop a life-threatening attack. Always be aware of your local laws, train regularly, and most importantly—stay safe and situationally aware.



Have you ever thought through what you’d do in a life-or-death situation? Preparation and mindset matter just as much as marksmanship. Stay empowered, stay protected, and always make the right choice!


 
 
 

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